What children expect from grownups is not to be 'understood', but only to be loved, even though this love may be expressed clumsily or in sternness. Intimacy does not exist between generations - only trust.
孩子们对大人的期望不是“理解”，而是被爱，即使这种爱可能表达得笨拙或严厉。亲密并不存在于世代之间——只有信任。