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Instead of joyfully looking forward to my birth, my mother began systematically preparing for her own death. She was fatalistic.

母亲没有满心欢喜地盼望我的出生，而是开始有系统地为自己的死亡做准备。她是宿命论的。

— Lorna Luft 洛尔娜·卢夫特