Failure and things of this sort - you can take it one of two ways. You can either let that hurt you and really affect the way that you live your life in the future, or you can use that as an opportunity for growth.
失败和类似的事情——你可以从两种方式中选择一种。你可以让它伤害你，真正影响你未来的生活方式，或者你可以把它当作一个成长的机会。