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How often my fear and ambivalence are rooted in what somebody else may think. But I need not present my actions, my words, myself for somebody else's approval. And basing my decisions on somebody else's approval or making my own approval contingent on somebody else's only postpones what I really want.
我的恐惧和矛盾心理常常根植于别人的想法。但我不需要把我的行动,我的言语,我自己呈现给别人去认可。把我的决定建立在别人同意的基础上或者把我自己的同意建立在别人推迟我真正想要的东西的基础上。