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In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?
在我职业生涯的早期，我一直在问这样一个问题:我如何治疗、治愈或改变这个人?现在我想用这样的方式来表述这个问题:我如何才能提供一种关系，让这个人可以利用这种关系来实现自己的个人成长?