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When children arrive, or when some crisis occurs, couples don't have the resources to deal with it because they've been so busy getting on with their lives. They haven't learned how to sit down and discuss things.

当孩子出生的时候，或者当一些危机发生的时候，夫妻们没有足够的资源来处理这些事情，因为他们一直忙于自己的生活。他们还没有学会如何坐下来讨论问题。

— Janet McTeer 珍妮特·麦克蒂尔