“ On matters of style, swim with the current, on matters of principle, stand like a rock. 在风格上,随波逐流;在原则上,坚如磐石。 Thomas Jefferson 托马斯·杰斐逊
“ The mother-child relationship is paradoxical and, in a sense, tragic. It requires the most intense love on the mother's side, yet this very love must help the child grow away from the mother, and to become fully independent. 母子关系是矛盾的,在某种意义上是悲剧的。它需要母亲最强烈的爱,但这种爱必须帮助孩子远离母亲,成长为完全独立的人。 Erich Fromm 埃里希·弗洛姆