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A woman simply is, but a man must become. Masculinity is risky and elusive. It is achieved by a revolt from woman, and it is confirmed only by other men. Manhood coerced into sensitivity is no manhood at all.
女人就是这样，但男人必须成为这样的人。男子气概是有风险的，也是难以捉摸的。这是由女人的反抗所实现的，只有其他男人才能证实这一点。被迫敏感的男子气概根本不是男子气概。