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The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what it was, nor forward to what it might be, but living in the present and accepting it as it is now.
唯一真正的安全不在于拥有或占有，不在于要求或期待，甚至不在于希望。一段关系的安全感既不在于回顾过去，也不在于展望未来，而是活在当下，接受现在。