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Relationships
You know someone's right for you when the things they don't have to say are even more important than the things they do.
当别人不必说的事情比他们做的事情更重要的时候，你就知道他是适合你的。
The trouble with women umpires is that I couldn't argue with one. I'd put my arms around her and give her a little kiss.
女裁判的问题是我无法与她们争辩。我会搂着她，给她一个小小的吻。
The biggest mistake is believing there is one right way to listen, to talk, to have a conversation -- or a relationship.
最大的错误是相信只有一种正确的方式去倾听、去交谈、去交谈——或者去建立一段关系。
It's disconcerting to realize how little you have to say to someone who once occupied such a prominent place in your bed.
当你意识到你对一个曾经在你床上占据如此重要位置的人说的话是多么少时，你会感到不安。
Among the many answers I have found, I believe love is the most beautiful and simple art that reflects the beauty of life.
在我找到的众多答案中，我相信爱是最美丽最简单的艺术，它反映了生活的美。
Respect people's relationship. There's so many other fish in the sea, so why mess with the one that's already been caught ?
尊重人民的关系。大海里还有那么多其他的鱼，所以为什么要去打扰那条已经被捕获的鱼呢?
But when you hear that he can't hear you, you can see that he can't see you. You are not here and you haven't even died yet.
但当你听到他听不见你的时候，你能看到他看不见你。你不在这里，你甚至还没死。
I find the best way to love someone is not to change them, but instead, help them reveal the greatest version of themselves.
我发现爱一个人最好的方式不是改变他们，而是帮助他们展现最伟大的自己。
The relationships I've had with my girl friends are so powerful and meaningful. Without them I truly don't know what I'd do.
我和我女朋友之间的关系是如此的强大和有意义。没有他们，我真的不知道我会做什么。
So long as we are loved by others I should say that we are almost indispensable; and no man is useless while he has a friend.
只要有人爱我们，我想说，我们几乎是不可或缺的;只要有朋友，没有人是无用的。
Don't worry about hurting me, if that's what you're afraid of. I want to get hurt. At least I´ll feel something for a change.
别担心伤害我，如果那是你害怕的。我想受伤。至少我会有一些改变的感觉。
The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.
最痛苦的事情，就是在爱一个人太多的过程中迷失了自己，忘记了自己也是特别的。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
If she does not respect you, she will replace you.
如果她不尊重你，她会取代你。
You can get away with saying much more with humor than you can with a straight face.
你可以带着幽默说得比板着脸说得多。
Submission is not about authority and it is not obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.
顺从不是权威，也不是顺从;一切都是关于爱和尊重的关系。
I didn't have a financial need, and I wasn't very gifted at relationships. I probably was more like what we think of boys as being: hard to pin down and wary of commitment.
我没有经济上的需要，也不擅长处理人际关系。我可能更像我们对男孩的看法:很难确定，对承诺很谨慎。
Relationships are never about power, and one way to avoid the will to hold power over another is to choose to limit oneself - to serve.
人际关系从来都不是关于权力的，避免将权力凌驾于他人之上的一种方法是选择限制自己——为他人服务。
But without deeper reflection one knows from daily life that one exists for other people--first of all for those upon whose smiles and well-being our own happiness is wholly dependent, and then for the many, unknown to us, to whose destinies we are bound by the ties of sympathy.
但是，不需要深入思考，我们就能从日常生活中了解到，我们是为别人而存在的——首先是为那些我们的幸福完全依赖于他们的微笑和幸福的人而存在，其次是为那些我们不认识的人而存在，他们的命运与我们的同情息息相关。