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苦苦挣扎
Struggling
If you stop struggling, then you stop life.
如果你停止奋斗，那么你就停止了生活。
I am not struggling. What I do, it is what I do.
我没有挣扎。我所做的，就是我所做的。
The two most powerful words when we're in struggle: me too.
在我们挣扎的时候，最有力的两个词是:我也是。
Every night I drown and every morning I wake up struggling to breathe.
每天晚上我都被淹死，每天早上我醒来时呼吸困难。
Some of us might find happiness if we quit struggling so desperately for it.
我们中的一些人可能会找到幸福，如果我们停止为它拼命奋斗。
If you're struggling tonight please know you're not alone. You matter very much. Don't give up.
如果你今晚很挣扎，请知道你并不孤单。你很重要。不要放弃。
So struggling for work here has been very good for me, but it's also been very hard to handle rejection.
所以在这里努力工作对我来说很好，但也很难接受被拒绝。
There will always be men struggling to change, and there will always be those who are controlled by the past.
总会有努力改变的人，总会有被过去控制的人。
It's tough right now. I didn't expect we would be struggling the way we are struggling. They made it hard for us in a lot of ways.
现在很艰难。我没想到我们会像现在这样挣扎。他们在很多方面给我们制造了困难。
I say no to a lot of things that just don't fit my life. I involve my kids in what I'm struggling with so they don't compete with it.
我对很多不适合我生活的事情说不。我让我的孩子们参与我的奋斗，这样他们就不会与我竞争。
I had my years of struggling. Some of my shows failed miserably, and I was upset by it and it dented my confidence. But I never stopped. I kept going for it.
我经历了多年的挣扎。我的一些节目失败得很惨，我很沮丧，这打击了我的信心。但我从未停止。我一直在努力。
It's good to raise awareness that men and boys are struggling, at least many of them are. But why say men are finished? It's too harsh, too sweeping, and it happens to not be true.
让人们意识到男人和男孩都在挣扎，这是件好事，至少他们中的许多人都在挣扎。但为什么说男人完了呢?这太苛刻了，太笼统了，而且碰巧不是真的。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
When we first started playing in the early days, none of us really had any idea about writing our own songs yet. We were struggling how to learn our instruments and play songs to be able to perform for people.
当我们最初在早期开始演奏时，没有人真正想过要写自己的歌。我们一直在努力学习乐器和演奏歌曲，以便能够为人们表演。
I think we're struggling with trying to redefine various positions at this point in history. To allow freedom for women, freedom for men, freedom from those sharply defined gender roles.
我认为我们正在努力重新定义历史上的各种立场。让女性自由，让男性自由，让他们摆脱那些被严格定义的性别角色。
I am always drawn to men that are funny. I do not know why. But I am always drawn to people that are struggling with parts of themselves... But it's like in the end, there has to be confidence.
我总是被有趣的男人吸引。我不知道为什么。但我总是被那些内心挣扎的人所吸引……但就像在最后，必须要有信心。
What's interesting is that both men and women are struggling with this issue in remarkably similar percentages, but the big difference is that women tend to talk about this when men keep it silent.
有趣的是，男性和女性在这个问题上的努力程度惊人地相似，但最大的区别在于，当男性保持沉默时，女性往往会谈论这个问题。