把这一句，留给此刻的你

Try to open up your mind a little, and move away from rigid opinions of what people should do and be - unless you have been there.

试着开放一点你的思想，远离那些关于人们应该做什么和应该成为什么的死板的观点——除非你去过那里。

— Ann Rule 安·鲁尔