You can practice deep listening in order to relieve the suffering in us, and in the other person. That kind of listening is described as compassionate listening. You listen only for the purpose of relieving suffering in the other person.
你可以练习深度倾听，以减轻我们和他人的痛苦。这种倾听被称为富有同情心的倾听。你倾听只是为了减轻别人的痛苦。