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The question for the child is not ‘Do I want to be good?’ but ‘Whom do I want to be like?’
给孩子的问题不是“我想做个好人吗?”而是“我想成为什么样的人?”
— Bruno Bettelheim 贝特尔海姆
同一主题，不同的表达
更多好句 ↗Learning is a result of listening, which in turn leads to even better listening and attentiveness to the other person. In other words, to learn from the child, we must have empathy, and empathy grows as we learn.
学习是倾听的结果，而倾听又能让你更好地倾听和关注他人。换句话说，要向孩子学习，我们必须有同理心，同理心随着我们的学习而增长。
Alice Miller
爱丽丝·米勒
All cynics are disappointed idealists. The more stars in the eyes, the harder the fall.
所有的愤世嫉俗者都是失望的理想主义者。眼睛里的星星越多，摔得越重。
Josh Lanyon
作者
A babe in the house is a well-spring of pleasure, a messenger of peace and love, a resting place for innocence on earth, a link between angels and men.
家中的婴孩是快乐的泉源，是和平与爱的使者，是世上纯真的安息之所，是天使与人之间的纽带。
Martin Farquhar Tupper
马丁·法夸哈·塔珀
We owe it to our children to give them a dignified and hopeful future.
我们有责任给我们的孩子一个有尊严和充满希望的未来。
Giorgio Napolitano
乔治·纳波利塔诺
What children expect from grownups is not to be 'understood', but only to be loved, even though this love may be expressed clumsily or in sternness. Intimacy does not exist between generations - only trust.
孩子们对大人的期望不是“理解”，而是被爱，即使这种爱可能表达得笨拙或严厉。亲密并不存在于世代之间——只有信任。
Carl Zucker
卡尔·扎克
An admirable quality of parenthood is the ability to respect your kid’s privacy.
为人父母的一个令人钦佩的品质是尊重孩子的隐私。
Susane Colasanti
苏珊科拉桑蒂