Learning is a result of listening, which in turn leads to even better listening and attentiveness to the other person. In other words, to learn from the child, we must have empathy, and empathy grows as we learn.

  • -- Alice Miller 爱丽丝·米勒

学习是倾听的结果,而倾听又能让你更好地倾听和关注他人。换句话说,要向孩子学习,我们必须有同理心,同理心随着我们的学习而增长。

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It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others.

令人惊讶的是,很多人在一生中都没有意识到他们对别人的感觉很大程度上是由他们对自己的感觉决定的。

As authors, most - most authors , our art is portraying the human condition. Trying to show you what it's like to be somebody else, trying to make you feel for somebody else. That means you have to have a high degree of empathy.

作为作家,绝大多数作家,我们的艺术是描绘人类的处境。试着向你展示成为别人是什么样子,试着让你对别人有感觉。这意味着你必须有高度的同理心。

My mother was a first-grade teacher, so I credit her with this lifelong intellectual curiosity I have, and love of reading and learning.

我的母亲是一名一年级的老师,所以我认为她拥有我毕生的求知欲,以及对阅读和学习的热爱。

I learn all these things about the record talking about it after it's finished.

我学到了所有这些关于唱片的东西,在唱片完成后谈论它。

When you talk to yourself, at least you know that someone is listening.

当你自言自语时,至少你知道有人在听。

You can't fake listening. It shows.

你不能假装在听。它显示了。