把这一句，留给此刻的你
Grant graciously what you cannot refuse safely and conciliate those you cannot conquer.
优雅地给予你无法安全拒绝的东西，安抚那些你无法征服的人。
— Charles Caleb Colton 英国作家科尔顿
同一主题，不同的表达
更多好句 ↗One needs no particular talent to be polite. On the contrary, being nice is what's left when you've failed at everything else.
一个人不需要特别的才能就能有礼貌。相反，当你在其他所有事情上都失败时，剩下的就是友善。
Diane Setterfield
戴安娜·赛特菲尔德
Respect yourself if you would have others respect you.
想要别人尊重你，先尊重自己。
Baltasar Gracián
巴尔塔萨尔·格雷西
Show interest in all people, not just those from whom you want something. Making people feel important and good about themselves is just the right thing to do.
对所有人都表现出兴趣，而不仅仅是那些你想从他们那里得到什么的人。让人们觉得自己很重要，自我感觉良好，这是正确的做法。
Bo Bennett
波·贝内特
We learned about gratitude and humility - that so many people had a hand in our success, from the teachers who inspired us to the janitors who kept our school clean... and we were taught to value everyone's contribution and treat everyone with respect.
我们学会了感恩和谦卑——从激励我们的老师到保持学校清洁的门卫，有那么多人参与了我们的成功……我们被教导要珍惜每个人的贡献，尊重每个人。
Michelle Obama
米歇尔·奥巴马
Reputation is only a candle, of wavering and uncertain flame, and easily blown out, but it is the light by which the world looks for and finds merit.
声誉只是一根蜡烛，燃烧着摇曳不定的火焰，很容易被吹灭，但它却是全世界寻找和发现美德的明灯。
James Russell Lowell
洛厄尔
People should recognize who you are and how you can act rather than how famous you are.
人们应该认识到你是谁，你能做什么，而不是你有多出名。
Mae Whitman
梅惠特曼