把这一句，留给此刻的你

Here's a thing about the death of your mother, or anyone else you love: You can't anticipate how you'll feel afterward. People will tell you; a few may be close to right, none exactly right.

关于你母亲或任何你爱的人的死亡，有一件事是这样的:你无法预料你死后的感受。人们会告诉你;一些可能接近正确，没有一个完全正确。

— Mary Schmich 玛丽·施密奇