You really don't always have to be super nice. Sometimes you have to show your bad side so that you can sort out who can accept you at your worst.
你真的不需要总是超级友好。有时候，你必须展现出你不好的一面，这样你才能找出谁能接受你最差的一面。
A LITTLE ENCOURAGEMENT
给此刻的你，一点向前的力量。
关于学习、善意与成长，读一句，再想一想。
The most essential factor is persistence - the determination never to allow your energy or enthusiasm to be dampened by the discouragement that must inevitably come.
最重要的因素是坚持——决心绝不让你的精力或热情被必然到来的挫折所抑制。
Seem to be telling this, but really telling that. Three-dimensional writing, like three-dimensional chess. Nabokov was the other master of that. You could learn something from Nabokov on every page he ever wrote.
似乎在说这个，但实际上是在说那个。立体化写作，就像立体化象棋。纳博科夫是另一位大师。你可以从纳博科夫写的每一页中学到一些东西。