Yes, women, and men, have to be open to love, because if we're not open then there's no way for us to find happiness. But you can be open to it and still have no control over when it's going to happen.
是的，女人和男人都必须敞开心扉去爱，因为如果我们不敞开心扉，就没有办法找到幸福。但你可以对它敞开心扉，但仍然无法控制它何时会发生。