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When the satisfaction or the security of another person becomes as significant to one as one's own satisfaction or security, then the state of love exists. Under no other circumstances is a state of love present, regardless of the popular usage of the term.
当一个人对另一个人的满足或安全变得和自己的满足或安全一样重要时，爱的状态就存在了。在任何其他情况下都不是爱的状态，不管这个词的流行用法是什么。