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A relationship needs constant attention. It’s a living thing, not just a habit. You’ve got to keep on top of it.
一段关系需要持续的关注。这是一种有生命的东西，而不仅仅是一种习惯。你必须控制住它。
Real relationships - the kind that were supposed to last but never did - were more trouble than they were worth.
真正的感情——那种本应长久却从未长久的感情——比它们的价值更麻烦。
Little girls fear being a princess that was never rescued but little boys fear being a prince that was too late.
小女孩害怕成为一个永远得不到拯救的公主，而小男孩害怕成为一个为时已晚的王子。
To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow - this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.
因此，被某人完全看见，并且无论如何被爱——这是一种近乎奇迹的人类奉献。
When we face pain in relationships our first response is often to sever bonds rather than to maintain commitment.
当我们面对关系中的痛苦时，我们的第一反应往往是切断联系，而不是保持承诺。
All relationships are tough. Just like with music, sometimes you have harmony and other times you have cacophony.
所有的关系都是艰难的。就像音乐一样，有时和谐，有时刺耳。
It is with the soul that we grasp the essence of another human being, not with the mind, nor even with the heart.
只有用灵魂，我们才能把握另一个人的本质，而不是用思想，甚至不是用心灵。
I haven't got anything against films that are about the minutia of relationships or customs, but I love extremes.
我并不反对那些关于人际关系或风俗习惯细节的电影，但我喜欢极端。
It is necessary to fall in love – the better to provide an alibi for all the despair we are going to feel anyway.
坠入爱河是必要的——无论如何，为我们即将感受到的绝望提供一个更好的托辞。
Never enter relationships. Otherwise, suffer the pains that come with it. Enjoy your individuality while you can.
从来没有进入的关系。否则，承受随之而来的痛苦。尽你所能享受你的个性。
People fight over parking spaces more than they do for each other; then they bemoan the fact they can't find love.
人们争抢停车位的次数要多于争抢停车位的次数;然后他们哀叹自己找不到真爱。
All the bruised lives, searching hearts...Everyone wants a love story but few will risk what it takes to live one.
所有受伤的生命，搜索的心…每个人都想要一个爱情故事，但很少有人愿意冒险去经历。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
Men and women play the same game but with different rules.
男人和女人玩同样的游戏，但规则不同。
Build me up and I with you. For we are more one than two.
建立我，我和你。因为我们不止一人。
I believe in love the verb, not the noun.
我相信爱是动词，而不是名词。
Every situation is different; it requires a unique response.
每一种情况都是不同的;它需要一个独特的响应。
Accept the fact that we have to treat almost anybody as a volunteer.
接受这样一个事实:我们必须把几乎所有人都当作志愿者来对待。
This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.
这就是爱情中发生的事。你们其中一个哭得很厉害，然后你们俩都开始挖苦人了。