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If you kiss on the first date and it's not right, then there will be no second date. Sometimes it's better to hold out and not kiss for a long time. I am a strong believer in kissing being very intimate, and the minute you kiss, the floodgates open for everything else.
如果你在第一次约会时接吻，但这是不对的，那么就不会有第二次约会了。有时候长时间不接吻会更好。我坚信接吻应该是非常亲密的，当你接吻的那一刻，其他一切的闸门都打开了。
But without deeper reflection one knows from daily life that one exists for other people--first of all for those upon whose smiles and well-being our own happiness is wholly dependent, and then for the many, unknown to us, to whose destinies we are bound by the ties of sympathy.
但是，不需要深入思考，我们就能从日常生活中了解到，我们是为别人而存在的——首先是为那些我们的幸福完全依赖于他们的微笑和幸福的人而存在，其次是为那些我们不认识的人而存在，他们的命运与我们的同情息息相关。
What you are as a single person, you will be as a married person, only to a greater degree. Any negative character trait will be intensified in a marriage relationship, because you will feel free to let your guard down -- that person has committed himself to you and you no longer have to worry about scaring him off.
作为一个单身的人，你会成为一个已婚的人，只是在很大程度上。任何负面的性格特征在婚姻关系中都会被强化，因为你可以放松警惕——那个人已经对你做出了承诺，你再也不用担心吓跑他。
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The formula for achieving a successful relationship is simple: you should treat all disasters as if they were trivialities but never treat a triviality as if it were a disaster.
获得一段成功恋情的秘诀很简单:你应该把所有的灾难都当作小事来对待，但绝不要把小事当作灾难来对待。
Not all relationships are meant to last, they’re just practice for the one that does.
并不是所有的关系都能持久，它们只是为那个能持久的人而进行的练习。
Being close but feeling far, talking but not being heard, loving but not being loved, that is the painful reality of a dying relationship.
亲近却感觉遥远，交谈却听不到，爱却得不到爱，这是一段濒死的关系的痛苦现实。
This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.
这就是爱情中发生的事。你们其中一个哭得很厉害，然后你们俩都开始挖苦人了。
The observation of others is coloured by our inability to observe ourselves impartially. We can never be impartial about anything until we can be impartial about our own organism.
我们无法公正地观察自己，这影响了我们对他人的观察。在我们对自己的有机体不公正之前，我们永远不可能对任何事情公正。
In a healthy relationship, there can't be one until there's two!
在一段健康的关系中，只有两个人在一起时才会有一个!