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Relationships
A lot of married people certainly have wonderful relationships with their dogs, but when you're single and your dog is the only other living thing in your house, it's a really special relationship which I wanted CATHY to have.
很多已婚人士和他们的狗都有很好的关系，但是当你单身的时候，你的狗是你房子里唯一活着的东西，这是一种非常特殊的关系，我想让凯茜拥有这种关系。
My mother had always taught me to write about my feelings instead of sharing really personal things with others, so I spent many evenings writing in my diary, eating everything in the kitchen and waiting for Mr. Wrong to call.
母亲总是教我把自己的感受写下来，而不是和别人分享真正私人的东西，所以我花了很多个晚上写日记，在厨房里什么都吃，等着错了人的电话。
The end of a relationship is not always a failure. Sometimes all the love in the world is not enough to save something. In these cases, it is not a matter of fault from either person. Some things cannot be, it's as simple as that.
一段感情的结束并不总是失败。有时候，世界上所有的爱都不足以拯救一些东西。在这些情况下，这不是任何人的过错。有些事情不可能，就是这么简单。
Unfortunately, I'm more experienced than I care to admit on long-distance relationships. Just because that is my life. I travel because I love to. As a result, I have to sort of make it work when a relationship kind of comes into view.
不幸的是，对于异地恋，我的经验比我愿意承认的还要丰富。因为这就是我的生活。我旅行是因为我喜欢。因此，当一段关系出现在我的视野中时，我必须让它发挥作用。
It is explained that all relationships require a little give and take. This is untrue. Any partnership demands that we give and give and give and at the last, as we flop into our graves exhausted, we are told that we didn't give enough.
有人解释说，所有的关系都需要一点付出和收获。这是不真实的。任何伙伴关系都要求我们付出、付出、再付出，最后，当我们精疲力竭地一头扎进坟墓时，却被告知我们付出得不够。
When men hear women want a commitment, they think it means commitment to a romantic relationship, but that's not it. It's a commitment to not floating around anymore. I want a guy who is entrenched in his own life. Entrenched is awesome.
当男人听到女人想要承诺时，他们认为这意味着对一段浪漫关系的承诺，但事实并非如此。这是一种不再四处游荡的承诺。我想要一个在自己的生活中根深蒂固的男人。根深蒂固的棒极了。
Namaste. I honour the place in your where the entire universe resides... a place of light, of love, of truth, of peace, of wisdom. I honour the place in you where when you are in that place and I am in that place there is only one of us.
合十礼。我尊敬你，整个宇宙居住的地方……一个充满光明、爱、真理、和平和智慧的地方。我尊重你的位置，当你在那个地方，而我在那个地方，只有一个我们。
If I am constantly working, my relationships fail. So at least now I can have enough time to write a happy record. And be in love and be happy. And then I don't know what I'll do. Get married. Have some kids. Plant a nice vegetable patch.
如果我一直工作，我的人际关系就会失败。所以，至少现在我可以有足够的时间写一个快乐的记录。要爱，要快乐。然后我不知道该怎么做。结婚。有一些孩子。种一块漂亮的菜地。
Separated lovers cheat absence by a thousand fancies which have their own reality. They are prevented from seeing one another and they cannot write; nevertheless they find countless mysterious ways of corresponding, by sending each other the song of
分手的恋人用一千种幻想欺骗分离，这些幻想都有它们自己的现实。他们不能相见，也不能写作;然而，他们找到了无数神秘的通信方式，通过发送对方的歌曲
A person of definite character and purpose who comprehends our way of thought is sure to exert power over us. He cannot altogether be resisted; because, if he understands us, he can make us understand him, through the word, the look, or other symbol.
一个有明确性格和目标的人，他理解我们的思维方式，一定会对我们施加力量。不能完全抗拒他;因为，如果他了解我们，他可以让我们了解他，通过文字、表情或其他符号。
Instead, I think over the years we have cut the strength of marriage and relationships by the law and weakened the institution. We have tried to deal with relationships with no-fault divorce, with child custody, with so many other avenues; and it has not helped.
相反，我认为，多年来，我们通过法律削弱了婚姻和关系的力量，削弱了制度。我们试图通过无过错离婚、子女抚养权以及其他许多途径来处理关系;但这并没有起到任何作用。
If I was on a march at the moment I would be saying to everyone: 'Be honest with each other. Admit there are limitless possibilities in relationships, and love as many people as you can in whatever way you want, and get rid of your inhibitions, and we'll all be happy.
如果当时我在游行，我会对所有人说:‘彼此诚实。承认人际关系中有无限的可能性，以你想要的任何方式爱尽可能多的人，摆脱你的压抑，我们都会快乐。
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沿着这个主题，再读几句。
You can't resent the other person for not giving you what you didn't ask for.
你不能因为别人没有给你你没有要求的东西而怨恨他。
Everybody deserves love, but nobody is entitled to it.
每个人都值得爱，但没有人有资格去爱。
Just because he likes the same bizzaro crap as you doesn't mean he's your soul mate.
他和你一样喜欢比扎罗的废话并不意味着他就是你的灵魂伴侣。
The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself.
生命中最重要的关系是你和自己的关系。因为无论发生什么事，你都会和你自己在一起。
Moving on is easy. It's staying moved on that's trickier.
继续前进很容易。继续前进才是更棘手的。
I've often wondered what makes a relationship last. I guess the best answer is it's the one right after the next to the last one.
我常常想知道是什么让一段感情能够长久。我想最好的答案是紧挨着最后一个。