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Caring
When you are caring about your children perhaps you always have to remember at what point you can become over involved because of something you need rather than something the child needs.
当你照顾你的孩子时,也许你总是要记住,在什么时候你会因为你需要的东西而过分投入,而不是孩子需要的东西。
Similarly, only people as misanthropic as myself can be counted on not to have to lie to others, since we have the unique luxury of not caring what sort of opinions others formulate about us.
同样,只有像我这样厌世的人才能指望不去欺骗别人,因为我们有一种独特的奢侈,那就是不在乎别人对我们的看法。
As a leader, I am tough on myself and I raise the standard for everybody; however, I am very caring because I want people to excel at what they are doing so that they can aspire to be me in the future.
作为一个领导者,我对自己很严格,我为每个人提高了标准;然而,我很在乎,因为我想让人们在他们所做的事情上做得更好,这样他们将来就可以立志成为我。
So, the total number of hours spent on the stuff you have to do to take care of a family, working and caring for stuff at home, the total number of hours is actually about the same for mothers and fathers.
所以,你花在照顾家庭,工作和在家照看东西上的总时间,对父母来说实际上是一样的。
Even though the neighborhood I grew up in had some unhealthy elements, there was a caring there where you knew that you didn't want to get caught doing something wrong. There were bright spots in the neighborhood where I felt nurtured on a community level.
虽然我成长的社区有一些不健康的因素,但那里有一种关怀,你知道你不想做错事被抓。在我感到自己在社区层面受到了熏陶的社区里,也有一些亮点。
The pains of disconcerted or frustrated habits, and the inherent pleasure there is in following them, are motives which nature has put into our wills without generally caring to inform us why; and she sometimes decrees, indeed, that her reasons shall not be ours.
习惯所带来的痛苦,以及遵循习惯所带来的内在乐趣,都是大自然赋予我们意志的动机,通常我们并不在意为什么要这样做;她有时甚至命令说,她的理由决不是我们的。
To me, the writer's main job is to just make the story unscroll in such a way that the reader is snared - she's right there, seeing things happen and caring about them. And if you dedicate yourself to this job, the meanings more or less take care of themselves. That's the theory, anyway.
对我来说,作者的主要工作就是把故事展开,让读者陷入圈套——她就在那里,看着事情发生,关心它们。如果你全身心地投入到这份工作中,它的意义或多或少就会自然而然地显现出来。无论如何,这就是理论。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题,再读几句。
Caring for children is a dance between setting appropriate limits as caretakers and avoiding unnecessary power struggles that result in unhappiness.
照顾孩子是一种舞蹈,在设置适当的限制作为照顾者和避免不必要的权力斗争,导致不快乐。
Who cares about great marks left behind? We have one life... just one. Our life. We have nothing else.
谁在乎留下的好成绩?我们只有一次生命……只有一个。我们的生活。我们没有别的了。
The current health care system is neither healthy, caring, nor a system.
当前的卫生保健系统既不健康,也不关怀,也不是一个系统。
I hope I'm very similar to my mum because she is a fantastic mother. She was driven as well as being incredibly protective and caring, and I think that is important.
我希望我很像我的妈妈,因为她是一个了不起的母亲。她很有动力,也很有保护意识和爱心,我认为这很重要。
There’s power in looking silly and not caring that you do.
你看起来很傻,一点也不在乎,这是有力量的。