A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
好吧
Okay
Horror fans need horror, okay? They don't need little worms squirming around going down your throat. To them, that's not horror.
恐怖迷需要恐怖,好吗?它们不需要小虫子在你的喉咙里蠕动。对他们来说,这并不可怕。
I know where I'm going to be, I'm not traveling here and there and everywhere. That didn't necessarily prompt me to it but it definitely opened up my mind of saying okay, maybe this is a good time to do this.
我知道我要去哪里,我不会到处旅行。这并不一定促使我这么做,但它确实打开了我的思路,让我说,好吧,也许现在是做这件事的好时机。
I gave myself permission to feel and experience all of my emotions. In order to do that, I had to stop being afraid to feel. In order to do that, I taught myself to believe that no matter what I felt or what happened when I felt it, I would be okay.
我允许自己去感受和体验我所有的情感。为了做到这一点,我必须停止害怕去感受。为了做到这一点,我教会自己相信,无论我有什么感觉,或者当我有这种感觉的时候发生了什么,我都会没事的。
There's a definition of narcissism that when a parent is narcissistic, instead of the child seeing himself reflected in the mother's face and the mother's joy, the child of the narcissistic parent feels like, 'What can I do to make her okay, to make her happy?'
自恋有一个定义,当父母自恋时,孩子看到的不是母亲脸上的表情和母亲的喜悦,而是自恋父母的孩子觉得,‘我能做些什么让她好起来,让她开心?’
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If I lived alone, Mom'd never sleep because she wouldn't know I was okay.
如果我一个人住,妈妈就不会睡觉,因为她不知道我没事。
I'm OK being the veteran, but I'm still just a kid.
我可以当老兵,但我还是个孩子。
So right. OK. We lost.
所以正确的。好的。我们输了。
My movies are okay, but they're not my specials.
我的电影还行,但不是我的拿手好戏。
I'm OK with not being perfect, but I'm not OK with being stagnant.
我可以不完美,但我也不可以停滞不前。
I think it's an okay thing to express yourself.
我认为表达自己是件好事。