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There's a definition of narcissism that when a parent is narcissistic, instead of the child seeing himself reflected in the mother's face and the mother's joy, the child of the narcissistic parent feels like, 'What can I do to make her okay, to make her happy?'

自恋有一个定义，当父母自恋时，孩子看到的不是母亲脸上的表情和母亲的喜悦，而是自恋父母的孩子觉得，‘我能做些什么让她好起来，让她开心?’

— Susan Sullivan 苏珊苏利文