There's a definition of narcissism that when a parent is narcissistic, instead of the child seeing himself reflected in the mother's face and the mother's joy, the child of the narcissistic parent feels like, 'What can I do to make her okay, to make her happy?'

-- Susan Sullivan 苏珊苏利文

自恋有一个定义，当父母自恋时，孩子看到的不是母亲脸上的表情和母亲的喜悦，而是自恋父母的孩子觉得，‘我能做些什么让她好起来，让她开心?’

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In the sky, there is no distinction of east and west; people create distinctions out of their own minds and then believe them to be true.

在天空中，没有东西之分;人们从自己的头脑中创造出差别，然后相信它们是真实的。

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Horror fans need horror, okay? They don't need little worms squirming around going down your throat. To them, that's not horror.

恐怖迷需要恐怖，好吗?它们不需要小虫子在你的喉咙里蠕动。对他们来说，这并不可怕。

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My definition of winning at squash is playing and surviving, and I've never lost a match.

我对壁球的定义是比赛和生存，我从来没有输过一场比赛。

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So right. OK. We lost.

所以正确的。好的。我们输了。

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