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Learn to reject friendship, or rather the dream of friendship. To want friendship is a great fault. Friendship ought to be a gratuitous joy, like the joys afforded by art, or life (like aesthetic joys). I must refuse it in order to be worthy to receive it.

学会拒绝友谊，更确切地说，拒绝友谊的梦想。想要友谊是一大错误。友谊应该是一种无端的快乐，就像艺术带来的快乐，或者生活(就像审美上的快乐)。我必须拒绝它，才能配得上接受它。

— Simone Weil 西蒙娜·韦伊