There is no neediness in desire there is no caretaking in desire. Caretaking is mightily loving, but it's a powerful anti aphrodisiac.

-- Esther Perel 佩瑞尔

欲望中没有需求，欲望中没有照顾。照顾是一种强大的爱，但它是一种强大的抗春药。

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