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It takes a lot of experience of life to see why some relationships last and others do not. But we do not have to wait for a crisis to get an idea of the future of a particular relationship. Our behavior in little every incidents tells us a great deal.

要想明白为什么有些关系能长久而有些却不能，需要很多生活经验。但我们不必等到危机来临，才对一段特殊关系的未来有所了解。我们在每一件小事中的行为都告诉我们很多。

— Eknath Easwaran 本伊斯瓦兰