A person of definite character and purpose who comprehends our way of thought is sure to exert power over us. He cannot altogether be resisted; because, if he understands us, he can make us understand him, through the word, the look, or other symbol.

  • -- Charles Horton Cooley 查尔斯·霍顿·库利

一个有明确性格和目标的人,他理解我们的思维方式,一定会对我们施加力量。不能完全抗拒他;因为,如果他了解我们,他可以让我们了解他,通过文字、表情或其他符号。

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If a girl understands your bullshit, sticks through your mistakes, smile even when you've done nothing for her, its obvious she's a keeper. But its also obvious you don't deserve her.

如果一个女孩理解你的废话,坚持你的错误,即使你没有为她做什么,她也要微笑,很明显,她是一个守护者。但很明显你配不上她。

As time went on, I did campaign to lighten the character a little bit, to introduce some romance into the episodes, outside activities, horse riding and fencing and mountaineering.

随着时间的推移,我做了一些运动,让角色变得轻松一点,在情节、户外活动、骑马、击剑和登山中加入一些浪漫元素。

The truth is rarely pure and never simple. Often, love is a tangled web of lies that only a broken heart would weave. Seldom is dishonesty the whole person, rather it's the pain.

真相很少纯粹,也从不简单。通常,爱是一张由谎言编织而成的网,只有心碎的人才会编织它。不诚实很少是一个人的全部,而是痛苦。

I'm doing what I think I was put on this earth to do. And I'm really grateful to have something that I'm passionate about and that I think is profoundly important.

我在做我认为我来到这个世界上是要做的事。我真的很感激拥有我所热爱的东西,我认为这是非常重要的。

I thought I was a pretty good writer, but I didn't have anything to write about. I wanted to go out in the world, have some adventures and then write about them.

我认为我是一个很好的作家,但我没有什么可写的。我想去外面的世界,有一些冒险,然后写他们。

I only choose musicians who I think will emerge, can emerge, with their own character, while still going along with the tune in question.

我只选择那些我认为会出现的音乐家,能够出现的,有他们自己的性格,同时还能跟上有问题的曲调。

We create our own unhappiness. The purpose of suffering is to help us understand we are the ones who cause it.

我们制造自己的不幸。痛苦的目的是帮助我们理解是我们自己造成了痛苦。

Ours was a history of well intentioned beginnings that end with a fight at every turn.

我们的历史是一段用心良苦的开端,以每一次战斗结束的历史。

If only you saw what I can see you'll understand why I want you so desperately.

如果你能看到我所能看到的,你就会明白为什么我如此迫切地需要你。

I thought I had gotten second, but I didn't, so I was really happy.

我以为我得了第二名,但我没有,所以我真的很高兴。