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It is very difficult for people to believe the simple fact that every persecutor was once a victim. Yet it should be very obvious that someone who was allowed to feel free and strong from childhood does not have the need to humiliate another person.

人们很难相信这样一个简单的事实:每个迫害者都曾经是受害者。然而，应该非常明显的是，一个从小就被允许感到自由和强大的人，没有必要去羞辱另一个人。

— Alice Miller 爱丽丝·米勒