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One of the things I learnt when I was negotiating was that until I changed myself I could not change others.
我在谈判中学到的一件事是，除非我改变自己，否则我无法改变别人。
— Nelson Mandela 纳尔逊·曼德拉
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更多好句 ↗There is one kind of robber whom the law does not strike at, and who steals what is most precious to men: time.
有一种强盗，是法律所不能打击的，他偷走了人类最宝贵的东西:时间。
Napoleon Bonaparte
拿破仑·波拿巴
Everybody talks about wanting to change things and help and fix, but ultimately all you can do is fix yourself. And that's a lot. Because if you can fix yourself, it has a ripple effect.
每个人都说想要改变，想要帮助，想要修复，但最终你能做的就是修复你自己。因为如果你能自我修复，就会产生连锁反应。
Rob Reiner
罗布·雷纳
The willingness to change one’s mind in the light of new evidence is a sign of rationality not weakness.
愿意根据新的证据改变自己的想法是理性的表现，而不是软弱的表现。
Stuart Sutherland
斯图尔特·苏瑟兰德
Never abandon a theory that explains something until you have a theory that explains more.
永远不要放弃一个解释某件事的理论，除非你有一个解释得更多的理论。
John McCarthy
约翰·麦卡锡
We learn the inner secret of happiness when we learn to direct our inner drives, our interest, and our attention to something besides ourselves.
当我们学会将自己的内在动力、兴趣和注意力放在自己之外的事情上时，我们就学会了快乐的内在秘密。
Ethel Percy Andrus
埃塞尔·珀西·安德鲁斯
Don't judge without having heard both sides. Even persons who think themselves virtuous very easily forget this elementary rule of prudence.
没有听取双方的意见，不要妄下结论。甚至那些自以为有道德的人也很容易忘记这条谨慎的基本原则。
St. Josemaría Escrivá
圣何塞马尔埃斯克里夫