The child gets two confusing messages when a parent tells him which is the right fork to use, and then proceeds to use the wrong one. So does the child who listens to parents bicker and fuss, yet is told to be nice to his brothers and sisters.

  • -- Rachel Blanchard 瑞秋·布兰查德

当父母告诉孩子使用哪个叉是正确的,然后继续使用错误的叉时,孩子会得到两个令人困惑的消息。孩子们听父母吵吵闹闹,却被告知要对兄弟姐妹好,也会这样做。

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I never thought of punk rock as the absolute act of rebellion for the sake of rebellion. There's a lot of that in there, but for me I think punk rock was always about questioning things and making decisions for yourself, which is a great message to pass on to your kids.

我从来没有想过朋克摇滚是为了反叛而反叛的绝对行为。里面有很多这样的东西,但对我来说,我认为朋克摇滚总是在质疑事情,为自己做决定,这是一个很好的信息传递给你的孩子。

Words can sometimes be used to confuse, but it's up to the practitioners of the study of language to apply them for good and not for evil. It is just like fire; fire can heat your house or burn it down.

词汇有时会被用来混淆视听,但这取决于语言研究的实践者如何将其应用于善而非恶。它就像火一样;火可以加热你的房子,也可以把它烧掉。

Things parents say to children are oftentimes not heard, but in some cases you pick up on things that your parent would like to see you have done.

父母对孩子说的话往往没有人听到,但在某些情况下,你会听到父母希望你做的事情。

I think it's been confusing for people because I haven't had a linear career.

我想这让人们感到困惑,因为我没有线性的职业生涯。

If I did have the impulse to be a parent, I would adopt - or foster.

如果我真的有做父母的冲动,我会领养——或者领养。

I have no message.

我没有消息。