The child gets two confusing messages when a parent tells him which is the right fork to use, and then proceeds to use the wrong one. So does the child who listens to parents bicker and fuss, yet is told to be nice to his brothers and sisters.

  • -- Rachel Blanchard 瑞秋·布兰查德

当父母告诉孩子使用哪个叉是正确的,然后继续使用错误的叉时,孩子会得到两个令人困惑的消息。孩子们听父母吵吵闹闹,却被告知要对兄弟姐妹好,也会这样做。

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The message of transformation and how we all can live from our heart, not just from our head, was a very important message for me to learn in my own life.

转变的信息,以及我们如何从内心而不是头脑中生活,是我在自己的生活中要学习的非常重要的信息。

Frank and explicit - that is the right line to take when you wish to conceal your own mind and confuse the minds of others.

坦率和明确——当你想隐藏自己的想法,混淆别人的想法时,这是正确的做法。

When a parent shows up with an attitude of entitlement, understand that under it is a boatload of anxiety.

当父母带着一种理所当然的态度出现时,要明白,在这种态度下,有一船的焦虑。

My parents' divorce made an important change in my life. It affected me.

我父母的离婚使我的生活发生了重大的变化。它影响了我。

I'm just a glutton for spas and messages. And I love to surf and hike.

我就是个爱泡温泉和发短信的人。我喜欢冲浪和远足。

Never confuse movement with action.

永远不要把运动和行动混为一谈。