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I'm the person that I always was, but in terms of how I approach my living, I'm not the same person at all. At all. I've buried a child, I've ended a marriage, and the grandson that I was raising is now grown. My family has totally shifted.

我还是以前的我，但就我的生活方式而言，我已经完全不是以前的我了。在所有。我埋葬了一个孩子，我结束了一段婚姻，我抚养的孙子现在长大了。我的家庭完全改变了。

— Iyanla Vanzant 伊雅拉·范森特