When we understand the needs that motivate our own and other's behavior, we have no enemies.

  • -- Marshall Rosenberg 马歇尔·罗森柏格

当我们理解了激励自己和他人行为的需求时,我们就没有敌人了。

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The only way I know to pluck from the hearts of enemies their desire to destroy us is to remove from their lives the sense that, for their own physical and spiritual survival, they must.

据我所知,要想从敌人的心中挖出他们毁灭我们的欲望,唯一的办法就是从他们的生活中消除这样一种感觉:为了他们自己的肉体和精神的生存,他们必须这样做。

Empathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It's the capacity to understand that every war is both won and lost. And that someone else's pain is as meaningful as your own.

同理心其实是精神吝啬的对立面。这是理解每一场战争的输赢的能力。别人的痛苦和你自己的一样有意义。

Could a greater miracle take place than for us to look through each other's eyes for an instant?

难道还有比我们对视片刻更伟大的奇迹发生吗?

I destroy my enemy when I make him my friend.

当我把敌人当朋友时,我就消灭了他。