You've got to know what your 'thing' is, and you've got to call it a 'thing,' whether it's meanness, nastiness, un-forgiveness, arrogance, ego, resistance, rebelliousness or defiance. Everybody's got a 'thing,' and once you call your 'thing' a 'thing,' we can give it a place to be or dismiss it.

你必须知道你的“东西”是什么，你必须把它叫做“东西”，不管是卑鄙、肮脏、不宽恕、傲慢、自我、反抗、反叛还是反抗。每个人都有一个“东西”，一旦你把你的“东西”叫做一个“东西”，我们就可以给它一个地方，或者把它扔掉。