Our dependency makes slaves out of us, especially if this dependency is a dependency of our self-esteem. If you need encouragement, praise, pats on the back from everybody, then you make everybody your judge.

  • -- Fritz Perls 弗烈兹皮耳氏

我们的依赖使我们成为奴隶,尤其是如果这种依赖是对我们自尊的依赖。如果你需要每个人的鼓励、赞扬、鼓励,那么你就要让每个人都成为你的评判者。

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People are mostly focused on defending the computers on the Internet, and there's been surprisingly little attention to defending the Internet itself as a communications medium. [We] need to pay some more attention to that, because it's actually kind of fragile.

人们主要关注的是保护互联网上的计算机,但令人惊讶的是,很少有人关注保护互联网本身作为一种通信媒介。(我们)需要对此给予更多关注,因为它实际上有点脆弱。

So whenever I hear The Beatles I always feel I've got a lot in common with everybody else.

所以每当我听到披头士,我总是觉得我和其他人有很多共同之处。

I could carve out of a banana a judge with more backbone than that.

我可以用一根香蕉雕出一个比这更有骨气的法官。

My whole outlook on life is, never judge a book by its cover.

我的人生观是,永远不要以貌取人。

Everybody wants to be great at something.

每个人都想做伟大的事情。