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Our dependency makes slaves out of us, especially if this dependency is a dependency of our self-esteem. If you need encouragement, praise, pats on the back from everybody, then you make everybody your judge.

  • -- Fritz Perls 弗烈兹皮耳氏

我们的依赖使我们成为奴隶，尤其是如果这种依赖是对我们自尊的依赖。如果你需要每个人的鼓励、赞扬、鼓励，那么你就要让每个人都成为你的评判者。

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People are mostly focused on defending the computers on the Internet, and there's been surprisingly little attention to defending the Internet itself as a communications medium. [We] need to pay some more attention to that, because it's actually kind of fragile.

人们主要关注的是保护互联网上的计算机，但令人惊讶的是，很少有人关注保护互联网本身作为一种通信媒介。(我们)需要对此给予更多关注，因为它实际上有点脆弱。

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Music gave me a sense that I was worthwhile and that I had something of value to offer the world even though everybody was telling me that I didn't.

音乐给我一种感觉，我是有价值的，我有价值的东西提供给世界，即使每个人都告诉我，我没有。

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As an actress, you never know when you're going to work again - and there's so much dependency on working.

作为一名演员，你永远不知道自己什么时候会再去工作——工作对你的依赖太大了。

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The world at large does not judge us by who we are and what we know; it judges us by what we have.

世界并不以我们是谁、我们知道什么来评价我们;它根据我们所拥有的来判断我们。

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You can judge a man by the company he keeps.

你可以从一个人的朋友来判断他。

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Everybody draws when they are little.

每个人小时候都画画。

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