The reality of the other person lies not in what he reveals to you, but what he cannot reveal to you. Therefore, if you would understand him, listen not to what he says, but rather to what he does not say.

  • -- Khalil Gibran 纪伯伦

别人的真实不在于他向你揭示了什么,而在于他不能向你揭示什么。所以你们若要听他的话,就不要听他所说的,要听他所没有说的。

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Give but don't allow yourself to be used. Love but don't allow your heart to be abused. Trust but don't be naive. Listen to others but don't lose your own voice.

给予,但不要让自己被利用。爱,但不要让你的心被滥用。信任,但不要天真。倾听他人,但不要失去自己的声音。

I like the idea that we build up these walls or rules or laws to maintain our reality, and when they fall away, you're left with a whole bunch of illusions.

我喜欢这样的想法,我们建立起这些墙,或规则或法律来维持我们的现实,当它们消失时,你会留下一大堆幻想。

The trouble with fiction is that it makes too much sense. Reality never makes sense.

小说的问题在于它太有意义了。现实从来没有意义。

One of my rules is: Never listen to your old stuff.

我的一条规则是:永远不要听你的旧东西。