When encountering emotional vampires, see what you can learn. It's your choice. You can simply feel tortured, resentful, impotent. Or, as I try to do, ask yourself, "How can this interaction help me grow?

  • -- Judith Orloff 朱迪丝·奥洛夫

当遇到情绪化的吸血鬼时,看看你能学到什么。这是你的选择。你只会感到痛苦、怨恨和无能为力。或者,当我试着去做的时候,问问自己,“这种互动如何帮助我成长?”

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People think that the arts are optional and they aren't. They teach a level of emotional depth that's equally important to mathematic skill. You can replace some math skills with a calculator if you know how to operate the thing, but there's no calculator for human interaction.

人们认为艺术是可选的,但事实并非如此。他们教给学生一定程度的情感深度,这对数学技能同样重要。如果你知道如何操作计算器,你可以用它来代替一些数学技能,但是没有计算器来进行人机交互。

For anyone going through a divorce or any other painful challenge, the first and most important recommendation I can make is to find some kind of spiritual and emotional support.

对于任何正在经历离婚或其他痛苦挑战的人来说,我能给出的第一个也是最重要的建议就是找到某种精神和情感上的支持。