So when you are listening to somebody, completely, attentively, then you are listening not only to the words, but also to the feeling of what is being conveyed, to the whole of it, not part of it.

-- Jiddu Krishnamurti 克里希纳穆提

所以当你全神贯注地听别人说话时，你不仅是在听他说的话，而且是在听他所表达的感情，是在听他说话的全部内容，而不是其中的一部分。

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It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others.

令人惊讶的是，很多人在一生中都没有意识到他们对别人的感觉很大程度上是由他们对自己的感觉决定的。

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Listening is such a simple act. It requires us to be present, and that takes practice, but we don't have to do anything else. We don't have to advise, or coach, or sound wise. We just have to be willing to sit there and listen.

倾听是如此简单的行为。它要求我们活在当下，这需要练习，但我们不需要做其他任何事情。我们不需要建议、指导或听起来很明智。我们只需要愿意坐在那里倾听。

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The struggle of my life created empathy - I could relate to pain, being abandoned, having people not love me.

我生命中的挣扎创造了同理心——我能体会到痛苦、被抛弃、没有人爱我。

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You can't fake listening. It shows.

你不能假装在听。它显示了。

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