In almost every marriage there is a selfish and an unselfish partner. A pattern is set up and soon becomes inflexible, of one person always making the demands and one person always giving way.

  • -- Iris Murdoch 默多克

几乎每段婚姻中都有一个自私的和一个不自私的伴侣。一个人总是提出要求,另一个人总是让步,这种模式很快就变得僵化了。

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I'd like to think that, at the end of the day, you can look at the things that I made as a young person and the things I'll continue to make as I get older and they'll be consistently interesting and soulful things, and if you like them they'll be a part of your dimension, as well.

我想,在一天结束的时候,你可以看看我做的东西作为一个年轻人,我将继续随着我年龄的增长,他们会一直有趣和深情的事情,如果你喜欢他们他们会成为你的一部分维度,。

I was glad to hear of that determination as I detest the practice of cousins marrying or any marriage between persons in which there can be traced the most distant relationship. I go for the improvement instead of the deterioration of our race.

我很高兴听到这个决定,因为我讨厌堂兄弟姐妹结婚,讨厌任何可以追溯到最遥远关系的人结婚。我追求进步而不是我们种族的堕落。

The sad thing is most people have to check with someone before they do the things that make them happy. We're all passing through; the least we can do is be happy, and the only way to do that is by being selfish.

可悲的是,大多数人在做让自己开心的事情之前,都要先征求别人的意见。我们都在穿越;至少我们能做的是快乐,而唯一的方法就是自私。

In a sacred ground like marriage, you find yourself out of it at certain times for reasons unknown that can be destructive. There could be a demon that kind of comes out and overtakes you.

在像婚姻这样神圣的地方,你会发现自己在某些时候会因为未知的原因而远离它,这可能是毁灭性的。可能会有一个恶魔出来,控制你。

As a person endorsing Coke, I'm comfortable endorsing the product. But if there is a problem on the manufacturing side (of the product), I would certainly like to address it.

作为可口可乐的代言人,我很乐意为该产品代言。但是如果在制造方面(产品)有问题,我当然愿意解决。

I find that the crazy narcissists, the selfish loons are often the most fun to be around, weirdly.

奇怪的是,我发现那些疯狂的自恋者和自私的笨蛋往往是最有趣的。