When a patient says he feels stuck and confused, and through good intentions he struggles to become loose and clear, he only remains chronically trapped in the mire of his own stubbornness.

  • -- Sheldon Kopp 谢尔登·科普

当病人说他感到困惑和困惑,出于良好的意愿,他挣扎着变得放松和清晰,他只是长期被自己的固执所困。

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Those who have the strength and the love to sit with a dying patient in the silence that goes beyond words will know that this moment is neither frightening nor painful, but a peaceful cessation of the functioning of the body.

那些有力量和爱与垂死的病人坐在一起,在超越语言的寂静中,他们将知道,这一刻既不可怕也不痛苦,而是身体功能的和平停止。

And so, it is not astonishing that, though the patient enters therapy insisting that he wants to change, more often than not, what he really wants is to remain the same and to get the therapist to make him feel better.

所以,并不令人惊讶的是,尽管接受治疗的病人坚持说他想要改变,但大多数情况下,他真正想要的是保持不变,让治疗师让他感觉更好。