It is one of the most effective attitudes of the neurotic to measure thumbs down, so to speak, a real person by an ideal, since in doing so he can depreciate him as much as he wishes.

  • -- Alfred Adler 阿尔弗雷德·阿德勒

神经质的人最有效的态度之一就是用理想来衡量一个人的缺点,也就是说,用理想来衡量一个真实的人,因为这样一来,他可以随心所欲地贬低他。