If your emotional abilities aren't in hand, if you don't have self-awareness, if you are not able to manage your distressing emotions, if you can't have empathy and have effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are, you are not going to get very far.

如果你无法控制自己的情感能力，如果你没有自我意识，如果你不能控制自己痛苦的情绪，如果你不能换位思考，不能建立有效的人际关系，那么无论你有多聪明，你都不会走得太远。