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One of the best ways of keeping your temper in an argument, as most of us know only too well, is not to listen to anything the other person has to say.

  • -- Alice Miller 爱丽丝·米勒

我们大多数人都非常清楚，在争论中保持冷静的最好方法之一就是不要听对方说什么。

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To read the report of a discussion in which arguments for and against are presented, in which a subject has been covered from different points of view, with new ideas advanced - this is far more instructive than to read a brief account of the resolution passed on the matter.

阅读一项讨论的报告，其中提出了赞成和反对的论点，从不同的角度讨论了一个问题，提出了新的观点- -这比阅读就该问题通过的决议的简要说明更有指导意义。

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Seek first to understand, then to be understood.Most people do not listen with the intent to understand: they listen with the intent to reply. They’re filtering everything through their own paradigms, reading their autobiography into other people’s lives.

先寻求理解，再寻求被理解。大多数人倾听的目的不是为了理解，而是为了回应。他们通过自己的范例来过滤一切，把自己的自传读给别人听。

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In the night of death, hope sees a star, and listening love can hear the rustle of a wing.

在死亡之夜，希望看到一颗星星，倾听爱能听到翅膀的沙沙声。

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Discussion is an exchange of knowledge; an argument an exchange of ignorance.

讨论是知识的交流;争论是无知的交换。

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