Don't ignore the past, but deal with it, on your own pace. Once you deal with it, you are free of it; and you are free to embrace your life and be a happy loving person because if you don't, the past will come back to haunt and keep coming back to haunt you.

不要忽视过去，而是要按照自己的节奏去处理它。一旦你处理了它，你就摆脱了它;你可以自由地拥抱你的生活，做一个快乐、充满爱的人，因为如果你不这样做，过去就会回来纠缠你，而且还会继续纠缠你。