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There are three ways of dealing with difference: domination, compromise, and integration. By domination only one side gets what it wants; by compromise neither side gets what it wants; by integration we find a way by which both sides may get what they wish.

有三种处理差异的方法:支配、妥协和融合。通过统治，只有一方得到了它想要的;通过妥协，双方都得不到自己想要的;通过整合，我们找到了一条双方都能如愿以偿的道路。

— Mary Parker Follett 玛丽·帕克·芙丽特