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By measuring the proportion of children living with the same parents from birth and whether their parents report a good quality relationship we are driving home the message that social programmes should promote family stability and avert breakdown.

通过测量从出生起就与同一父母生活在一起的儿童的比例,以及他们的父母是否报告有良好的质量关系,我们正在向人们传达这样一个信息:社会项目应促进家庭稳定,避免家庭破裂。

So I developed very early a massive inferiority complex, and I've told the story often about how that inspired me later in life to get involved in other things, because I couldn't out-do my brothers in sports, and it's a very competitive relationship.

所以我很早就形成了一种巨大的自卑情结,我经常讲这个故事,讲这个故事如何激励我在以后的生活中去做其他的事情,因为我在体育上不能超过我的兄弟们,这是一种竞争非常激烈的关系。

It takes a lot of experience of life to see why some relationships last and others do not. But we do not have to wait for a crisis to get an idea of the future of a particular relationship. Our behavior in little every incidents tells us a great deal.

要想明白为什么有些关系能长久而有些却不能,需要很多生活经验。但我们不必等到危机来临,才对一段特殊关系的未来有所了解。我们在每一件小事中的行为都告诉我们很多。

So after the Lewinsky scandal, everything changed, and we moved from using the Bible to address the moral issues of our time, which were social, to moral issues of our time that were very personal. I have continued that relationship up until the present.

莱温斯基丑闻之后,一切都变了,我们从用圣经来解决我们这个时代的道德问题,社会问题,到我们这个时代的道德问题,非常个人化。我一直保持着这种关系,直到现在。

Actually, I think my view is compatible with much of the work going on now in neuroscience and psychology, where people are studying the relationship of consciousness to neural and cognitive processes without really trying to reduce it to those processes.

事实上,我认为我的观点和现在在神经科学和心理学领域正在进行的许多工作是一致的,人们正在研究意识与神经和认知过程的关系,而不是试图将其简化为这些过程。

If you're lucky like me, your relationship with your brother has resolved itself on the peaceful side of the fence and has stayed there. But if you're someone who's got a family that's all fractured and finding it hard to relate, that's a very sad place to be.

如果你像我一样幸运,你和你哥哥的关系已经在和平的那一边解决了,并一直保持在那里。但如果你的家庭支离破碎,很难与人相处,那将是一个非常悲伤的地方。

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