A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
关系
Relationships
Evaluating the benefits and drawbacks of any relationship is your responsibility. You do not have to passively accept what is brought to you. You can choose.
评估任何关系的优缺点是你的责任。你不必被动地接受别人带给你的东西。你可以选择。
Relationship gurus always said that an attraction based on friendship and mutual respect was far more likely to stay the course - and the bastards were right.
关系大师们总是说，建立在友谊和相互尊重基础上的吸引力更有可能持续下去——这些混蛋是对的。
To be in love is merely to be in a state of perceptual anesthesia -- to mistake an ordinary young man for a Greek god or an ordinary young woman for a goddess.
恋爱只不过是一种感性的麻醉状态——把一个普通的青年男子误认为希腊的神，或者把一个普通的青年女子误认为女神。
One of the strangest things about being an actor is that people you don't know feel that they are allowed to comment on your hair, body, clothes, relationships.
当演员最奇怪的一件事是，你不认识的人觉得他们可以评论你的头发、身体、衣服和人际关系。
If there is to be a human future, we must bring ourselves into balanced relationship with one another and the Earth. This requires building economies with heart.
如果要有人类的未来，我们必须使自己与彼此和地球保持平衡的关系。这需要用心建设经济。
When you make a commitment to a relationship, you invest your attention and energy in it more profoundly because you now experience ownership of that relationship.
当你对一段关系做出承诺时，你会投入更多的注意力和精力，因为你现在拥有了这段关系。
To respect the dignity of a relationship also implies accepting the end when it comes. Except in my mind, except in my dreams, where the aftertaste of her still lingers.
尊重一段关系的尊严也意味着接受它的结束。除了在我的脑海里，除了在我的梦里，她的余味还在那里徘徊。
Every company has two organizational structures: The formal one is written on the charts; the other is the everyday relationship of the men and women in the organization.
每个公司都有两种组织结构:正式的写在图表上;另一个是组织中男性和女性的日常关系。
I didn't have a financial need, and I wasn't very gifted at relationships. I probably was more like what we think of boys as being: hard to pin down and wary of commitment.
我没有经济上的需要，也不擅长处理人际关系。我可能更像我们对男孩的看法:很难确定，对承诺很谨慎。
Obviously we don't have a crystal ball. But I think with the relationships that we've established with local hospitals, first-responders and the Red Cross that we'll adapt.
显然我们没有水晶球。但我认为，通过我们与当地医院、急救人员和红十字会建立的关系，我们将适应这些变化。
As you learn who you are, you can better surround yourself with friends who make you a better person, and that sometimes only happens when you disassemble old relationships.
当你了解自己是谁的时候，你就能更好地和那些让你成为更好的人的朋友们在一起，而这种情况有时只会发生在你拆散旧关系的时候。
Oh the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all right out, just as they are.
啊，这是一种安慰，一种说不出的安慰，一种和一个人在一起感到安全的安慰，既不用衡量思想，也不用衡量语言，只要把它们原原本本地说出来就行了。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
Death ends a life, not a relationship.
死亡结束的是生命，而不是一段关系。
The observation of others is coloured by our inability to observe ourselves impartially. We can never be impartial about anything until we can be impartial about our own organism.
我们无法公正地观察自己，这影响了我们对他人的观察。在我们对自己的有机体不公正之前，我们永远不可能对任何事情公正。
A person of definite character and purpose who comprehends our way of thought is sure to exert power over us. He cannot altogether be resisted; because, if he understands us, he can make us understand him, through the word, the look, or other symbol.
一个有明确性格和目标的人，他理解我们的思维方式，一定会对我们施加力量。不能完全抗拒他;因为，如果他了解我们，他可以让我们了解他，通过文字、表情或其他符号。
The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself.
生命中最重要的关系是你和自己的关系。因为无论发生什么事，你都会和你自己在一起。
It's funny how you never think about the women you've had. It's always the ones who get away that you can't forget.
有趣的是你从来没有想过你的女人。你永远不会忘记那些离开你的人。
If I can't get the girl, at least give me more money.
如果我找不到那个女孩，至少给我更多的钱。