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Explore your mind, discover yourself, then give the best that is in you to your age and to your world. There are heroic possibilities waiting to be discovered in every person.
探索你的思想，发现你自己，然后把你最好的给你的年龄和你的世界。每个人都有可能成为英雄。
I think what makes us human - is our interconnectedness among people. It's our ability to form and maintain relationships. It's the barometer by which we call ourselves human.
我认为使我们成为人类的是人与人之间的相互联系。这是我们形成和维持关系的能力。它是我们自称为人类的晴雨表。
Not that we didn't have close relationships with our parents - I'm very close to my mom - but parents didn't think anything of going off for a few weeks and leaving their kids.
并不是说我们和父母没有亲密的关系——我和妈妈关系很好——但是父母们并没有想过要离开他们的孩子几个星期。
The formula for achieving a successful relationship is simple: you should treat all disasters as if they were trivialities but never treat a triviality as if it were a disaster.
获得一段成功恋情的秘诀很简单:你应该把所有的灾难都当作小事来对待，但绝不要把小事当作灾难来对待。
I'm terrible at relationships. I consider myself to be smart and a good mother but it's taken me this long to realise you don't have to marry a guy after three days or dump him.
我不擅长处理人际关系。我认为自己很聪明，是个好妈妈，但我花了这么长时间才意识到，你不必三天后就嫁给一个男人，或者甩了他。
You can have all sorts of relationships, but there's something with musicians working together where you can have relationship that can just continue to grow in a beautiful way.
你可以有各种各样的关系，但是有一些事情是和音乐家一起工作，你可以有关系，可以继续以一种美丽的方式发展。
A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other... maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever.
一个男孩和一个女孩可以只是朋友，但总有一天，他们会爱上彼此……也许是暂时的，也许在错误的时间，也许太晚，也许永远。
It's very difficult to judge relationships from the outside. You never know what happens in intimate moments with two people to know why they really support and love each other.
从外部判断一段关系是非常困难的。你永远不知道在亲密的时刻发生了什么，也不知道为什么他们真的支持和爱对方。
The truth is rarely pure and never simple. Often, love is a tangled web of lies that only a broken heart would weave. Seldom is dishonesty the whole person, rather it's the pain.
真相很少纯粹，也从不简单。通常，爱是一张由谎言编织而成的网，只有心碎的人才会编织它。不诚实很少是一个人的全部，而是痛苦。
The observation of others is coloured by our inability to observe ourselves impartially. We can never be impartial about anything until we can be impartial about our own organism.
我们无法公正地观察自己，这影响了我们对他人的观察。在我们对自己的有机体不公正之前，我们永远不可能对任何事情公正。
I'd be happy to stay single now because I've always been in relationships. For the first time ever I can do what I want, when I want, with who I want, without answering to anyone.
我很乐意保持单身，因为我一直都在谈恋爱。我第一次可以做我想做的事，在我想做的时候，和我想要的人在一起，而不需要回答任何人。
I've been really lucky to have had my fair share of relationships over the years and experiences to draw from. But I would say that I generally am not the one doing the heartbreaking.
我真的很幸运，这么多年来，我有很多可以借鉴的人际关系和经验。但我想说的是，我通常不是那个让人心碎的人。
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沿着这个主题，再读几句。
Balanced relationships are always based in freedom, not obligation.
平衡的关系总是建立在自由的基础上，而不是义务。
Practically all the relationships I know are based on a foundation of lies and mutually accepted delusion.
事实上，我所知道的所有关系都建立在谎言和相互接受的错觉的基础上。
Things happen to everybody in the course of a lifetime. Relationships end, people die, tragedy befalls everyone. So everyone has this wealth of experience, and the older you are the more you have to draw on.
每个人在一生中都会遇到一些事情。关系结束，人们死去，悲剧降临到每个人身上。所以每个人都有丰富的经验，你年龄越大，你就越需要利用这些经验。
You can't lose something you never had.
你不能失去你从未拥有过的东西。
I don't know why I always end up talking about my relationships. I try not to.
我不知道为什么我总是以谈论我的人际关系结束。我尽量不这么做。
It's funny how you never think about the women you've had. It's always the ones who get away that you can't forget.
有趣的是你从来没有想过你的女人。你永远不会忘记那些离开你的人。